.Imam Ali sent date for a man , five times
.That man was a respectful person and did not want any thing from someone
?There was a person that asked imam Ali: why you sent him date
.he did not ask for help. in addition, one time was enough
.Imam Ali said: Allah does not increase people like you
.I give him and you grudge! if I give him after his asking, I do not give him any thing
.but I give his honor price
,because if I waited his asking, actually I forced him to give me his honor
.the honor of that face, he rubes it in soil when praying