بسم الله الرحمن الرحیم

.Imam Ali sent date for a man , five times

.That man was a respectful person and did not want any thing from someone

    ?There was a person that asked imam Ali: why you sent him date 

.he did not ask for help. in addition, one time was enough

.Imam Ali said: Allah does not increase people like you

.I give him and you grudge! if I give him after his asking, I do not give him any thing

.but I give his honor price

,because if I waited his asking, actually I forced him to give me his honor

.the honor of that face, he rubes it in soil when praying